The Shoulds by Francesca Specter

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Issue #112: Rethinking past relationships over a Sunday roast
Who needs therapy?
Apr 17, 2025 • Francesca Specter
Issue #88: How rituals keep us connected
From Friday night dinners to annual holidays, why traditions matter.
Oct 3, 2024 • Francesca Specter
Issue #85: The first-date rules of adult friendship
After the social peak of your mid-twenties, friendmaking can feel remarkably similar to dating.
Sep 12, 2024 • Francesca Specter
Issue #57: The great flaking debate
For some, cancelling on plans is a friendship love language. For others, it's a deal-breaker.
Dec 7, 2023 • Francesca Specter
Issue #56: Meeting a partner in your thirties (and beyond)
'Your identity is no longer as malleable as it once was. You’ve probably taken some stab at chasing your dreams; fulfilling your own needs; creating…
Nov 30, 2023 • Francesca Specter
Issue #33: Putting down roots (after a year spent avoiding commitment)
Step One: resurrecting my basil plant.
Jun 15, 2023 • Francesca Specter
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